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  • Softness is Strength: Letting Yourself Be Seen and Heard

    Vulnerability is power

    For a long time, I thought that being strong meant never showing the cracks. Never asking for help. Just keeping my chin up and pushing through, no matter how heavy things felt. Because that’s what strong people do, right?

    But here’s the thing: strength without softness is just a shield. It’s heavy, and it can keep you safe, but it can also keep you feeling alone.

    I’ve been learning (and re-learning) that the real power comes when you let your walls down. When you let people see the parts of you that are a little messy, a little scared, a little unsure. Because that’s where the real connection happens—when you stop trying to be perfect and start letting yourself just be human.

    Softness isn’t weakness. It’s not about giving up or letting life steamroll you. It’s about letting yourself feel—really feel—without judging or shaming yourself. It’s about saying, “I’m tired today, and that’s okay.” It’s about asking for help, even when you’re used to doing it all alone. It’s about being honest with yourself and the people around you.

    I’m learning that it’s okay to be soft and strong at the same time. To hold space for both the part of me that wants to keep going no matter what, and the part of me that just wants to rest and breathe. Because both are real. Both are valid. And both are worthy of love and respect.

    So if you’re reading this and you feel like you’re always the strong one—the one who holds it all together—I want you to know this: it’s okay to let yourself be soft too. It’s okay to not have all the answers. It’s okay to say, “I’m struggling right now.”

    You don’t have to carry it all alone. You’re allowed to lean on the people who love you. You’re allowed to take a breath. You’re allowed to feel.

    And maybe… just maybe… that’s the strongest thing of all.

    Here’s to softness. Here’s to showing up real and honest. Here’s to letting yourself be seen and heard—exactly as you are.

    Call to Action:

    ✨ If you’re craving more gentle reminders and daily boosts of self-belief, grab my free Confidence Kit here. Let’s keep this journey soft, strong, and real—together. 

  • How a Confidence Coach Can Help: Unlock the Life You Deserve 

    Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, there’s still that little voice inside you saying you’re not good enough? That you’re not as smart, as talented, or as worthy as everyone else seems to be?

    You’re not alone.

    And you don’t have to stay stuck there.

    Here’s the truth: Confidence is the foundation of everything. It’s the key that unlocks the doors you’ve been too afraid to open—whether that’s speaking up in meetings, asking for what you want in relationships, or simply feeling at peace in your own skin.

    And that’s exactly where a confidence coach steps in.

    👉 I help you see the real problem—no more tiptoeing around it

    We’ll dig deep to uncover what’s really holding you back. Maybe it’s that constant comparison to everyone else. Maybe it’s that fear of failing or being judged. Together, we’ll get crystal clear on what’s actually going on—because when you can see the problem clearly, you can finally start to change it.

    👉 I help you break free from the cycle of self-doubt

    Confidence isn’t about “faking it till you make it.” It’s about understanding where your self-doubt comes from and creating new beliefs that actually serve you. I’ll help you see that you’re not broken—you’re just carrying old stories that don’t belong to you anymore.

    👉 I’m here to challenge you—with kindness and honesty

    I’m not here to coddle you or let you stay stuck in the same old patterns. I’ll call you out when you’re playing small, but always with compassion. Because real change happens when someone sees your potential and refuses to let you settle for anything less.

    👉 I give you real tools that fit your life

    No cookie-cutter solutions here. I’ll help you build confidence in ways that feel authentic to you—whether that’s learning how to speak up in tough conversations, creating daily habits that support your growth, or finally letting go of what’s been weighing you down.

    👉 I show you that confidence is more than a feeling—it’s a choice

    When you choose to back yourself, everything else shifts. Your relationships become richer. Your career grows. You stop saying yes to things that drain you and start saying yes to the things that light you up.

    👉 Why does this matter?

    Because when you’re confident, you’re not just more successful—you’re more you. And that’s what the world needs.

    👉 What’s possible when you work with me?

    ✨ You stop second-guessing every decision.

    ✨ You speak up, even when your voice shakes.

    ✨ You stop apologizing for who you are.

    ✨ You start living a life that feels yours—bold, bright, and full of possibilities.

    👉 Ready to see how a confidence coach can change everything?

    If you’re tired of feeling like you’re not enough, or like you’re stuck on the sidelines of your own life, let’s talk. I believe confidence is the key to living fully—and you’re so much closer to unlocking it than you think.

    Let’s do this together.

  • Celibacy & Confidence: My Journey to Quiet Strength

    Celibacy is a journey.

    For the longest time, I believed that intimacy was the key to connection. That sharing my body would somehow prove my worth or make me feel whole. But over the years, I’ve come to see things differently. My journey with celibacy has taught me that true connection starts within. It begins with choosing myself and listening to my soul’s quiet whisper: “You are already enough.”

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  • The Quiet Power of Saying No: Lessons in Boundaries and Clarity

    Boundaries are the pillars of confidence.

    I’ll be honest: I used to think saying no was rude. Like I was shutting people out or not being grateful for what was offered. So for years, I said yes to things that didn’t feel right—yes to invitations I didn’t want, to conversations that drained me, to relationships that weren’t really for me.

    Every time I said yes when I really meant no, a little piece of me would shrink.

    It was a soft, almost invisible ache—a sense that I was betraying myself, even if I couldn’t put it into words.

    Learning to Love My No

    One day, it hit me: I was tired of living in constant reaction mode, constantly available for everyone else’s plans and needs.

    I started small.

    Saying no to one invite.

    No to one person who took and took but never gave.

    No to the idea that I needed to do everything to be worthy of love.

    It felt terrifying at first. But also… a little bit liberating. Like I was finally giving my heart a place to rest.

    The Link Between Boundaries and Confidence

    There’s a quiet magic in boundaries. They’re not loud or dramatic. They’re a calm assurance that your energy is precious, your peace is worth protecting, and you don’t have to justify mi your choices to anyone.

    It’s a truth I’ve come to hold close: Every time I honor a boundary, I stand taller in my confidence.

    It’s like my inner voice is saying, “You matter. Your feelings matter. And you’re allowed to take up space, even if it makes someone else uncomfortable.”

    My Celibacy Journey: A Radical No and a Gentle Yes

    Celibacy has been one of my deepest and most tender boundaries. It’s not about denying myself joy or rejecting the idea of love—it’s about slowing down and reclaiming my relationship with my body and my heart.

    For me, celibacy has been a clear, radical no to anything that doesn’t honor the sacredness of who I am. It’s been a way to create space for healing. A chance to stop confusing physical closeness with emotional safety.

    And surprisingly, it’s been a huge confidence builder.

    Because when I stopped chasing validation in someone else’s arms, I found it in my own.

    When I stopped using intimacy as a quick fix for loneliness, I learned to sit with my feelings and let them guide me.

    The Ripple Effect: Saying No Brings Clarity Everywhere

    What I didn’t expect was how that quiet no would ripple out into every other part of my life.

    It showed up in my work—giving me the courage to stop saying yes to projects that didn’t light me up.

    It showed up in friendships—helping me see who respected my no and who only wanted me when I was convenient.

    It showed up in my self-talk—teaching me to stop people-pleasing and start people-cherishing (starting with myself).

    The Most Profound Lesson

    Here’s what I’ve learned, bestie:

    Saying no isn’t about rejection—it’s about protection.

    It’s not about cutting people off—it’s about making room for what truly matters.

    And the most profound part? Saying no can be a quiet, gentle act. It doesn’t have to be a battle or a drama—it can be a soft whisper that says, “I love you, but I love me too.”

    My Invitation to You

    If you’re feeling stuck in a cycle of automatic yeses, I want you to know this: you are allowed to say no. Even if you’ve been a yes-person your whole life.

    You’re allowed to let your no be clumsy and awkward at first.

    You’re allowed to protect your peace, even if it confuses or disappoints others.

    Because in that quiet no, you’re saying yes to something far more beautiful: your clarity, your healing, your quiet confidence.

    Journaling Prompt

    👉 Where in my life am I ready to say no more often?

    👉 What would it feel like to trust my no and honor it, even if it feels scary?

    My Affirmation

    💫 “I trust myself to know what’s best for me.

    I honor my boundaries.

    I protect my peace.

    I love myself enough to say no.” 💫

  • When Respect Becomes Non-Negotiable: Drawing the Line Between Normal Relationship Issues and Disrespect

    Respect… just the minimum

    We all know relationships aren’t always a walk in the park. Some days, you’re in sync, finishing each other’s sentences and sharing that last slice of pizza. Other days, you’re both rolling your eyes and wondering who left the washing up in the sink again.

    But here’s the thing – there’s a line between normal relationship hiccups and real, gut-level disrespect. And that line? It matters. A lot.

    I’ll be honest with you – I’ve struggled to figure out that line myself. It’s so easy to get stuck in the mess of “Maybe it’s just a phase” or “It’s not that bad, right?” But deep down, I always knew when it had crossed into something that didn’t sit right in my gut.

    Normal Relationship Bumps

    In healthy relationships, disagreements are part of the deal. You might clash about money, time together, or what to watch on Netflix (seriously, who hasn’t fought over that?). These moments might sting or frustrate you, but they’re fixable. You both walk away feeling like you were heard, even if you didn’t get your way.

    But Disrespect? That’s a Different Beast

    Disrespect isn’t about small annoyances – it’s about feeling like your worth doesn’t matter. When someone:

    Talks down to you or calls you names Laughs off your feelings as “silly” or “too much” Keeps crossing your clearly stated boundaries Makes you doubt your own reality (hello, gaslighting)

    …that’s not normal relationship turbulence. That’s a sign your needs are being bulldozed.

    My Personal Gut-Check

    I’ve learned to listen to that little voice that says, “This doesn’t feel right.” If you’re always second-guessing yourself or you’re shrinking who you are just to keep the peace, that’s not love. That’s survival mode. And you deserve better.

    Some Reflection Questions for You

    Do you feel safe, respected, and seen in this relationship, even when you’re upset? Does the other person ever make you doubt your reality or feelings? Are there patterns of disrespect that keep repeating, no matter how much you try to “fix” things?

    These questions have been game-changers for me in figuring out what’s worth working on and what’s just not okay.

    My Strong Opinion (Because You Deserve It)

    Let’s be real: disrespect doesn’t magically fix itself. If you’re always feeling small, it’s not “just a phase” – it’s a pattern. And it’s okay to walk away from what doesn’t make you feel safe or valued.

    Respect has to be the bottom line.

    Your Boundaries Are Worth Defending

    So, here’s your friendly reminder: your boundaries are not negotiable. They’re the blueprint for how you deserve to be treated.

    And if someone can’t honor that? Let them be. Let you be – whole, respected, and enough exactly as you are.

    I’d love to hear from you, bestie: Have you ever struggled like I have to know the difference between normal conflict and disrespect? What helped you figure it out? Drop a comment below and let’s chat about it. 💛

  • How to Get Confident With Your Money (and Affirmations to Keep You Going!)

    Let’s be real: money talk can feel… loaded. Maybe you’ve felt ashamed for not knowing enough, or worried you’re just not “good with money.” But here’s the truth: you’re allowed to learn, grow, and change your story with money.

    Financial confidence doesn’t happen overnight. It’s built step by step—by getting real with your numbers, learning new things, and celebrating the small wins. Today, I’m sharing 6 simple steps to help you build that confidence—and some powerful affirmations to keep you on track when it feels tough.

    1️⃣ Get Real With Your Numbers

    The first step? Get honest about where you’re at—your income, expenses, debts, and savings. No judgment, just information.

    I used to avoid looking at my bank account because it felt so overwhelming. But once I faced it, I realized knowledge is power. It gave me clarity, and that’s the foundation of confidence.

    Affirmation:

    “I am worthy of understanding my money. I can handle this.”

    2️⃣ Learn the Basics (No Overwhelm!)

    You don’t need to be a financial guru. Just focus on the basics—like how to make a budget that feels good, how interest works, and how to prioritize your spending.

    Start with simple resources that speak your language. There’s no shame in googling “what is a budget?”—everyone starts somewhere.

    Affirmation:

    “I am learning new things every day. I am growing in knowledge and confidence.”

    3️⃣ Set Small, Achievable Goals

    Confidence is built by doing. Tiny money goals are like baby steps to a bigger financial life:

    ✅ Save £50 this month.

    ✅ Cook at home more.

    ✅ Check your accounts weekly.

    These small actions build up your self-belief. And every time you tick one off, you’re proving to yourself: I can do this.

    Affirmation:

    “I celebrate my progress, no matter how small.”

    4️⃣ Celebrate Every Win

    Yes, even the little ones! We’re so quick to criticize ourselves for mistakes, but how often do we pause and say, “Wow, I did that!”?

    When you celebrate paying off a bill or sticking to your budget, you’re telling your brain: this matters, and I’m proud of me.

    Affirmation:

    “I am proud of myself for every step I take.”

    5️⃣ Invest in Your Growth (Literally!)

    Confidence grows when you invest in your future. That might mean learning about investing, opening a savings account, or buying a course that levels up your skills.

    Or it could be investing in you—like taking care of your mental health or buying tools that make managing money easier.

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    Affirmation:

    “I trust myself to invest in my future with love and intention.”

    6️⃣ Change Your Money Story

    So much of money confidence is mindset. Start catching those old stories in your head—like “I’m bad with money” or “I’ll never be debt-free”—and gently flip the script.

    Affirmation:

    “I am creating a new story with money. One of trust, growth, and possibility.”

    Conclusion

    Building confidence with money isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up for yourself, over and over. You’re allowed to learn, you’re allowed to stumble, and you’re allowed to keep going.

    Remember: you’re more than your bank balance. Your worth is not defined by a number—it’s defined by the way you choose to grow and care for yourself.

    Call to Action:

    I’d love to hear from you! What’s one small money goal you’re working on this month? Drop it in the comments—I’ll cheer you on! 

  • The Secret Sauce: 5 Powerful Ways to Feel Confident Instantly

    We’ve all had those moments where our confidence wavers—when the self-doubt creeps in, our shoulders hunch a little, and we just don’t feel quite ourselves. But here’s the thing: confidence isn’t some faraway mountaintop—it’s something we can tap into, right here, right now.

    I’ve pulled together 5 quick, powerful ways to instantly tap into your confidence reserves and show up like the fierce, unstoppable human you are. These aren’t just fluffy ideas—they’re the secret sauce I use whenever I need to feel ready to take on the world. Let’s dive in!

    1️⃣ Strike a Power Pose

    Sounds daft but it works!

    This might sound a bit silly, but trust me—it works. When you physically take up space, your brain follows suit. Standing tall, shoulders back, chin up—these small posture shifts send a powerful message to your mind: I’ve got this.

    Try it next time you’re about to tackle something nerve-wracking—before a meeting, a date, or even just a tough conversation. You’ll feel the shift.

    2️⃣ Use Positive Self-Talk

    We talk to ourselves more than anyone else does, so let’s make that conversation a confidence-boosting one! Swap out the harsh inner critic for a kinder, more encouraging voice.

    Instead of “I can’t do this,” try “I’m giving it my best shot.” Instead of “I’m not good enough,” try “I’m learning and growing every day.”

    These little rewrites in your self-talk might seem small, but they add up—big time.

    3️⃣ Dress to Impress (For YOU!)

    Dress for YOU!

    We all have those outfits that make us feel unstoppable. That blazer that fits just right, that top that makes you feel like the star of your own show.

    It’s not about impressing anyone else—it’s about aligning the outside with how you want to feel inside. So go ahead, put on that power outfit and own your day!

    4️⃣ Focus on Your Strengths

    Focus on what you do well

    When we’re feeling shaky, it’s easy to zero in on what’s not working. But let’s flip that script.

    Take a moment to list out your strengths—big or small. Maybe it’s your kindness, your ability to solve problems, or your infectious laugh.

    Reminding yourself of what makes you you can instantly pull you back into your power.

    5️⃣ Visualize Success

    Close your eyes and imagine that moment where you’re beaming with pride—where you’re showing up as your most confident self. Picture every detail: what you’re wearing, how you’re standing, how you’re feeling.

    Visualization is more than daydreaming—it primes your mind for success and helps you step into it with intention.

    Confidence is a Daily Practice

    I know it can feel like confidence is something you’re either born with or not—but that’s just not true. It’s a practice, and it’s something you can build every single day.

    So save this post, pin it, or share it with a friend who could use a boost. And if you’re ready to dig even deeper, check out my Confidence Journal or join my 1:1 coaching program—both designed to help you unlock your fullest, most unstoppable self.

    Let’s make confidence a way of life—together. 

  • Beauty on a Budget: My Top 10 Affordable Essentials for a Glowing Confidence Boost

    Beauty on a budget

    Let’s be real: glowing skin and a fresh, confident vibe shouldn’t cost an arm and a leg. I’ve always believed that beauty isn’t about the price tag—it’s about finding the right essentials that make you feel amazing. Today, I’m sharing my top 10 affordable beauty must-haves that have earned a permanent spot on my shelf—and trust me, they’re worth every penny.

    Body:

    💧 1. The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid 2% + B5

    This little bottle of magic delivers a surge of hydration that plumps up tired skin in seconds. I use it morning and night for a dewy, healthy glow. Plus, it’s under £10—hello, affordable luxury!

    🧴 2. CeraVe Hydrating Cleanser

    A gentle cleanser that leaves your skin feeling clean and soft, not tight or stripped. It’s perfect for all skin types—especially if you’re battling dry patches.

    💄 3. NYX Soft Matte Lip Cream

    Who says a budget-friendly lipstick can’t feel luxe? This creamy lip cream glides on like velvet and comes in shades that complement every mood.

    4. Maybelline Fit Me Matte + Poreless Foundation

    I’m obsessed with the natural finish of this foundation—lightweight but buildable, and it actually stays put all day long.

    5. e.l.f. Bite-Size Eyeshadow Palette

    A teeny palette with a big punch—rich pigments and buttery texture that rival higher-end brands.

    Gorgeous, affordable beauty for confidence on a budget

    6. Revolution Conceal & Define Concealer

    I swear by this for those ‘I didn’t sleep well’ mornings—it blends seamlessly and brightens without creasing.

    7. Essence Lash Princess Mascara

    This mascara is a social media darling for good reason—it gives serious volume and lift for under £5.

    8. Garnier Micellar Cleansing Water

    Effortlessly melts away makeup, leaving skin fresh and balanced—no harsh rubbing needed.

    9. Wet n Wild MegaGlo Highlighting Powder

    For those days you want to glow like the sun—this highlighter brings out your best features without breaking the bank.

    10. Dove Beauty Cream Bar

    A gentle classic that does double duty as a face cleanser and a creamy body bar—affordable and iconic.

    I know what it’s like to want to treat yourself without feeling guilty about the price. These ten affordable picks have become my go-tos—not just because they’re budget-friendly, but because they work.

    Ready to elevate your beauty routine without splurging? Check out the links to shop my faves—because you deserve to feel beautiful every single day. ✨💄

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  • Money Trauma: Growing Up Without, Living in a Crisis, and the Lifelong Impact on Confidence

    Money trauma is real

    Money trauma is real. It’s not just about a bank balance—it’s about how money (or the lack of it) can shape your sense of worth, safety, and identity. For me, that feeling of not having enough has been a shadow in every corner of my life.

    I grew up with nothing. My dad was a single father with just four recipes on repeat. We never went on holidays, never went on school trips. Nice clothes? That was a luxury I didn’t dare to dream about. Money was something other people had. In my world, it was always “not enough.” And because of that, I grew up thinking I was “not enough” too.

    From being a benefit kid to a care kid, I saw firsthand how money shapes lives. Kids with money walked taller. They wore the clothes that fit in. They had shiny gadgets and easy laughter. I watched from the sidelines, shrinking inside, feeling like my worth was on clearance sale—like the second-hand clothes I wore.

    It’s taken me years to understand this: money trauma isn’t just about what’s in your wallet. It’s about how you see yourself, how you expect to be treated by the world. It seeps into everything—like how I’d say no to things I wanted because I felt I didn’t deserve them. Or how I’d spend money as soon as I got it, like it was too hot to hold. Or how I’d freeze up in conversations about money, sure that everyone else had it all figured out and I was the only one lost.

    The Cost of Living Crisis Today

    And now? The cost of living is rising higher than ever, and it’s like my childhood is playing out on repeat for millions of children today. Over 4.5 million kids in the UK are living in relative poverty—almost a third of all children. They’re growing up with empty fridges, worn-out uniforms, and that same tight knot in their stomachs I remember so well.

    I know what that does to a child’s confidence. When you don’t have enough, you feel like you’re not enough. That’s what money trauma does—it tells you to play small, to expect less, to never ask for more. And it doesn’t end when you grow up. It seeps into your job interviews, your relationships, your dreams.

    You’re enough regardless of your financial situation

    The Power of Financial Literacy

    Here’s what I wish I’d known sooner: money trauma doesn’t have to be a life sentence. Learning about money—truly learning, not just crunching numbers—has been one of the most healing things I’ve done for my confidence. Because when you understand money, you stop being afraid of it. You stop letting it decide your worth.

    Financial literacy isn’t just about budgeting or investing. It’s about teaching yourself, step by step, that you deserve security. That you deserve to have choices. That you’re allowed to want more than survival. And for kids growing up in poverty today, it’s the difference between feeling trapped by their circumstances and seeing a door they can open.

    My Journey: From Scarcity to Self-Worth

    I’m still on this journey, and some days it’s messy. Some days I still feel that old shame creeping in—like I’m not allowed to talk about money, not allowed to want it. But here’s what I know now: I’m not that little girl anymore. I’m not just a “benefit kid.” I’m not just someone who never went on holiday. I’m someone who can rewrite my story, one honest conversation at a time.

    I’m telling my story. No more silence. Shame thrives in the dark, so I’m shining a light on it. I’m learning, step by step. No finance degree, just curiosity and compassion for myself. Tracking my spending, learning how to save—baby steps, but they matter. I’m giving myself grace. My past wasn’t my fault. I didn’t choose to be a child in poverty, and I’m done punishing myself for it. I’m choosing to believe I’m worthy. Money isn’t a measure of my worth. It’s a tool I can learn to use.

    A Note to Anyone Who Feels the Same

    If you’re reading this and feeling the same ache I’ve carried, please know this: you’re not alone. Money trauma is sneaky and stubborn, but it’s not who you are. Your worth was never meant to be measured in pounds or pence. You deserve to stand tall, to speak up, to feel safe and seen—no matter what your bank balance says.

    Let’s rewrite our money stories together. Let’s teach ourselves—and our children—that confidence isn’t just for those with money. It’s for all of us, because we’re all worthy of a life that feels rich in every way.

    Love Lorraine x

  • Money Mindset Makeover: How Financial Confidence Fuels Your Whole Life

    Let’s be honest: money talk can feel intimidating. There’s so much noise out there—budgets, investments, hustle culture—that it’s easy to get stuck in the overwhelm. But here’s the truth: your money mindset is the secret sauce to feeling empowered, secure, and ready to take on the world.

    Today, I want to share why financial confidence matters way beyond your bank account, and how shifting the way you think about money can transform every part of your life—starting right now.

    Why Financial Confidence Matters

    It’s not just about the numbers. Money is energy. It’s freedom. It’s options. And when you feel secure with your finances, you show up in the world differently.

    ✅ You make decisions from a place of power, not fear.

    ✅ You have the headspace to chase bigger dreams.

    ✅ You trust yourself to handle challenges.

    Financial confidence isn’t about how much money you have—it’s about how you feel about it.

    3 Shifts to Build Financial Confidence Today

    👉 1. Know Your Numbers (without shame).

    Awareness is everything. Track your income, your spending, and what actually matters to you. This isn’t about judgment—it’s about clarity. When you know what’s coming in and going out, you can make choices that align with your goals.

    👉 2. Replace “I can’t afford it” with “How can I make this possible?”

    This tiny shift changes everything. Instead of shutting yourself down, it opens the door to creativity and resourcefulness—two things that build real confidence.

    👉 3. Invest in what lights you up.

    Forget the idea that spending on yourself is “selfish.” When you invest in things that nourish your mind, body, and soul—whether it’s a course, a cozy home vibe, or a day of rest—you’re reinforcing the message: I am worth it.

    My Take: My Financial Confidence Journey

    I used to feel like money was something to fear—like it had power over me. But the moment I decided to get clear, to set boundaries, and to treat my money with care, everything shifted.

    Suddenly, I felt more in control of my life—not because I had more money, but because I had more self-trust. That’s the magic of financial confidence—it’s about backing yourself.

    How to Start Your Own Money Mindset Makeover

    💡 Read one personal finance book or podcast this month. Knowledge = power.

    💡 Create a mini money ritual. Light a candle, grab your notebook, and look at your finances with compassion and curiosity.

    💡 Remind yourself: you’re allowed to thrive. Your worth isn’t measured by your bank account. It’s measured by how you care for yourself.

    Final Thoughts: You Deserve Financial Peace

    Here’s what I want you to remember: you deserve to feel safe and secure in your money. Not because of how much you have, but because of how you honor your needs and dreams.

    Confidence in money is really confidence in yourself. So take that next small step—one shift, one choice at a time. Your future self will thank you.

    Money mindset can be the secret sauce for building unstoppable confidence, and these books are some of my absolute favorites. From playful, no-nonsense guides to soulful money manifestos, each one offers a fresh perspective and real tools to take charge of your finances. Whether you’re a total newbie or just want to get your money vibe on point, these books have got your back. Tap below to explore them and start rewriting your money story—because you deserve to feel secure and confident in every part of your life!

    You are a bad ass at making money – Jen Sincero

    Psychology of money – Morgan Housel

    Good with Money- Emma Edwards

    The Financial Diet – Chelsea Fagan